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♥ Friday, March 10, 2006 ♥

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this is my self-test result...hmmmm...will it be true about myself!!

Ai ling has a healthy imagination and displays a fair amount of trust. She lets new people into her circle of friends. She uses her imagination to understand new ideas, things, and people.

Ai ling's true self-image is unreasonably low. Someone once told ai ling that she wasn't a great and beautiful person, and she believed them. Ai ling also has a fear that she might fail if she takes large risks. Therefore she resists setting her goals too high, risking failure. She doesn't have the internal confidence that frees her to take risks and chance failure. Ai ling is capable of accomplishing much more than she is presently achieving. All this relates to her self-esteem. Ai ling's self-concept is artificially low. Ai ling will stay in a bad situation much too long... why? Because she is afraid that if she makes a change, it might get worse. It is hard for ai ling to plan too far into the future. She kind of takes things on a day to day basis. She may tell you her dreams but she is living in today, with a fear of making a change. No matter how loud she speaks, look at her actions. This is perhaps the biggest single barrier to happiness people not believing in and loving themselves. Ai ling is an example of someone living with a low self-image, because their innate self-confidence was broken.

In reference to ai ling's mental abilities, she has a very investigating and creating mind. She investigates projects rapidly because she is curious about many things. She gets involved in many projects that seem good at the beginning, but she soon must slow down and look at all the angles. She probably gets too many things going at once. When ai ling slows down, then she becomes more creative than before. Since it takes time to be creative, she must slow down to do it. She then decides what projects she has time to finish. Thus she finishes at a slower pace than when she started the project. She has the best of two kinds of minds. One is the quick investigating mind. The other is the creative mind. Her mind thinks quick and rapidly in the investigative mode. She can learn quicker, investigate more, and think faster. Ai ling can then switch into her low gear. When she is in the slower mode, she can be creative, remember longer and stack facts in a logical manner. She is more logical this way and can climb mental mountains with a much better grip.

ai ling will be candid and direct when expressing her opinion. She will tell them what she thinks if they ask for it, whether they like it or not. So, if they don't really want her opinion, don't ask for it!

ai ling will demand respect and will expect others to treat her with honor and dignity. Ai ling believes in her ideas and will expect other people to also respect them. She has a lot of pride.

Most people with a severe leftward slant have some type of childhood trauma they have yet to work through. Since we didn?t actually ?see the writing?, we can?t tell if she actually has a hard left emotional slant, but if so? she has issues with trust and it is likely rooted in childhood. Ai ling has withdrawn into herself. She is reserved and shows her feelings only at times of great anger, extreme passion, or tremendous stress. Ai ling is an introvert. She makes decisions based on logic, therefore she is rarely impulsive. She doesn't find any need for expressing her emotions. In fact, she probably sees this emotional expression as an unnecessary waste of time. She has a hard time relating to an extreme extrovert, although it is common for her to be attracted to one. Many people do not understand ai ling; it is difficult for them to really know how ai ling feels. Ai ling enjoys being alone, and probably prefers working alone. Working with her hands is a pleasure. Ai ling's basic nature is to look out for herself first. Although she can and does feel emotions, perhaps as deeply as anyone, she just almost always harbors them inside. The first time someone angers ai ling, she probably will not say anything to that person at that time. However, she will mentally keep track of everything this person does wrong to her until she cannot hold her emotions inside any longer. Then; Boom! Ai ling will cloud up and rain all over them. And she will never regret telling someone off, because she knew what she was saying the entire time. She won't impulsively tell someone off. Emotional stories will not sway ai ling. She thinks totally with judgment, first considering every situation by the effect it will have on her. Ai ling needs space and time alone. She will be much more efficient if given a job alone, rather than being surrounded by people.

ai ling tends to write a bit smaller than the average person.? When a person's letters are small and tiny, this indicates an ability to focus and concentrate.? This character trait is a huge asset in careers like math, science, race car driving, and flying planes.? However, if ai ling writes tiny all of the time, she? will also display characteristics of someone who is socially introverted.? Ai ling will often sit on the sideline and watch others get the attention at parties.?? she might be willing to open up and be warm, but only in small groups or a select group of people.? When she is busy working on a project, it is common for all other noises and distractions to just fade away and? her ability to focus is incredible.? When she says she didn't hear you... really, she didn't hear you.?

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